Tuesday, March 02, 2010
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
猫の日
I read somewhere that Feb. 22 is 猫の日 in Japan. It also happens to be my sister's birthday (and my other co-worker's birthday and 2 co-workers' baby shower).Anyway, this year the keyword for me is "Enjoy". I have decided that New Year's Resolutions are just the same old every year so instead, I think just picking one keyword to remind myself what is important for me this year would be much easier to achieve. So "to enjoy everyday, to find excuses to enjoy life, to enjoy work and chores and everything I choose to do or have to do" is my overall goal this year.
This idea did not come to me until I found myself more than slightly depressed earlier when I got the flu and could not really take care of my baby daughter. I was also worried about returning to work in April and what daycare options I have and the kind of arrangement I should make. I would have nightmares of being lost even in a place with many familiar faces. When I woke up I'd feel tired and completely lost interest in eating or doing anything. Then I have an urgent need to talk to people, so I talked to my sister, my sister-in-law, my husband, a friend, my old high school friend via Facebook (I think in that exact order) and felt much better. I was able to "walk out" from the depression. It dawned on me that life is not all about solving problems but about counting every happiness (and creating happiness!) What is most important right now is that I should be enjoying my timeoff with my baby as she will be growing up so fast that I will regret not remembering how and what we do to bond.
So, going back to Feb. 22... It was my sister's birthday and a rainy working Friday for the men, but instead of not doing anything, I suggested that we all go up to the city and celebrate with her after dinner. We got there past 9pm and did not come home until almost 2:30am and everyone was SO TIRED!! But now at least we all got something we could remember and with pictures to show. And it was my baby's first trip to San Francisco, her first time to stay out so late, her first time being on 28th floor, her first time participating in a birthday party and hearing the birthday song...etc. It was great!! Imagine if I was still depressed and didn't want to do anything ...
I have been thinking of maybe moving back to Hong Kong permanently but tonight, I recall these sayings that reminded me that maybe I should feel lucky at where I am.
1. My friend from Hong Kong telling me my house and my suburban life is like staying at some fancy spa resort in Thailand. She also loves the weather, the supermarkets, the convenient of driving and all the free parking here. She actually came for the ONJ concert, which we did not even know was happening. :-P - Check, check, check, check.
2. Someone from Hong Kong again said her dream is to have a master bedroom big enough to allow getting on and off the bed from both sides. - Check.
3. Someone from Hong Kong but studying and living in Germany said she wishes the winter is less harsh, the people are less serious and cooking something Chinese at home could be easier. - Check, check, check.
4. Someone in Hong Kong wishes he had a small cozy one story house with French doors in the living room that open to a small back yard with sitting area under the awnings. - Check.
So with so many checks, life here is really not bad at all and I should just enjoy it! Whenever I need a change, just take a short trip or a vacation. Break away from the routines and go create some happy, memorable events, like Feb 22.
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Ha!
Today I was working from home and I just stepped out to the kitchen area briefly to grab something to eat. I must have left just a slit open and on my way back to the study, this is what I saw. Bagel had already found where I would be and decided to sleep close by. He is so sneaky yet such a sweet smart boy, isn't he? These little things about cats just really make you love them more and more!!!!!!
Sunday, August 12, 2007
Monday, March 26, 2007
Monday, February 19, 2007
ネコ、ネコ、ネコ、
Some people are crazy about their cats.
I have the same problem.

Toby and Bagel.
Can you tell they are brothers from the same litter?

Here is their sister - Bebe.
She has adorable, all-natural white color eye-shadows.
If you have cats at home, you will enjoy your house even more because they are smart, clean, quiet, not needy, and love the same things we do without spoiling it. And most importantly, they make you smile. It was scientifically proven that petting or holding your own loving cats can lower your blood pressure and theirs.
Happy New Year!
I have the same problem.

Toby and Bagel.
Can you tell they are brothers from the same litter?

Here is their sister - Bebe.
She has adorable, all-natural white color eye-shadows.
If you have cats at home, you will enjoy your house even more because they are smart, clean, quiet, not needy, and love the same things we do without spoiling it. And most importantly, they make you smile. It was scientifically proven that petting or holding your own loving cats can lower your blood pressure and theirs.
Happy New Year!


